tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post114802198509915678..comments2024-02-20T08:24:41.908+00:00Comments on PEAS ON TOAST: it hurtsPeas on Toasthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148045641840305572006-05-19T14:34:00.000+01:002006-05-19T14:34:00.000+01:00Phuck sorry Fly ...progile = profile ak...!Phuck sorry Fly ...<BR/><BR/>progile = profile ak...!Daedalushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02201811190392230364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148045537746603232006-05-19T14:32:00.000+01:002006-05-19T14:32:00.000+01:00Errr... Jam lol"couple of good, healthy flings"??B...Errr... <B>Jam</B> lol<BR/><BR/>"couple of good, healthy flings"??<BR/><BR/>Bwhahaha! - I also somtimes wish for a world of peace, harmony, and nakedness haha...<BR/><BR/><B>Fly</B> - you grew a blogger progile! ;)Daedalushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02201811190392230364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148044764212760882006-05-19T14:19:00.000+01:002006-05-19T14:19:00.000+01:00Peas – Like jam said - you have to cry this one ou...Peas – Like jam said - you have to cry this one out hun - it helps – one-by-one they will make you stronger.<BR/><BR/>I also agree with daytripper... this was a *short* one and you do feel rejected, yes, - small bum's loss... and, not too much harm done. Unfortunatly relationships also become longer the older you get - we all need these 6-month ones to prepare us for those measured in years.Daedalushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02201811190392230364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148043779170125552006-05-19T14:02:00.000+01:002006-05-19T14:02:00.000+01:00Steph, who knows. Right now I'm thinking it's actu...Steph, who knows. Right now I'm thinking it's actually easier to be single. <BR/><BR/>I guess time will tell!Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148043440185843532006-05-19T13:57:00.000+01:002006-05-19T13:57:00.000+01:00Don't be so hard on yourself. You'll meet someone ...Don't be so hard on yourself. You'll meet someone else who is ready to love the wonderful person you are. SB just wasn't ready yet.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17329124814064172699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148039885298387492006-05-19T12:58:00.000+01:002006-05-19T12:58:00.000+01:00Anon - I'm certainly not shifting the blame here. ...Anon - I'm certainly not shifting the blame here. I've always said that I cannot hate him for at least being sincere and honest. He was never bad to me. <BR/>But, this is my blog. So I can write whatever I feel fit, and if it means it's helping me to get over this person, then I will write. There's more to come as well. I haven't hit the angry phase yet.<BR/><BR/>Jam - crumbs, that's hectic babe. If that is the case, at least then you know it was never you. ;)Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148038663205851972006-05-19T12:37:00.001+01:002006-05-19T12:37:00.001+01:00I've lost count of the number of people who have a...I've lost count of the number of people who have asked me if my ex was gay. Because so many people have asked me, I am begining to wonder myself...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148038659207271382006-05-19T12:37:00.000+01:002006-05-19T12:37:00.000+01:00This is the Circle of Life - while it is hard, it'...This is the <B>Circle of Life</B> - while it <I>is</I> hard, it's hard for everyone - stop making Small Bum out to be the bad guy, and Peas to be the victim.<BR/><BR/>How about some level-headeness that compliments SB on his honesty, and realises that he has his own pain to go through as well - from everything that I've read on this website, SB <I>was</I> also participating <I>intensely</I> in this relationship - he wasn't holding out & the conclusion that he's a bastard because he's decided that after five months [such a trivial amount of time!] it's not for him, is both biased & naive...<BR/><BR/>I understand what you're going through - but own it, & stop trying to shift the blame...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148038113459825652006-05-19T12:28:00.000+01:002006-05-19T12:28:00.000+01:00Ah Steph, thanks babe. But if there's anything I'c...Ah Steph, thanks babe. But if there's anything I'ce learnt here: I'll never ever confess loving anyone to their faces again! I won't be the first to do it.<BR/>Hopefully I won't ever get into a situation like this again. <BR/>Next time I'll listen to warning bells.<BR/><BR/>Suavebona - thanks guy. Funnily enough, someone told me yesterday that some circles thought he might've been gay at varsity. I wish. Then at least it wasn't me that chased him away. :(<BR/>Unfortunately he isn't gay.Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148036925500126142006-05-19T12:08:00.000+01:002006-05-19T12:08:00.000+01:00Man, thats a bitch! Sure is never nice to break up...Man, thats a bitch! Sure is never nice to break up with anyone, nonetheless being the break-upee. Well if anything you know you got a great support system and I agree with a lot of people when they say you're a great catch. There'll be someone else. It gets beter with time, as I assume you should know. But I cant wait to see you in the angry state after the sad state. Should be entertaining. But chin up my sweet, Get your ass out there and get twisted like a motherfucka! Do it it like only you can.<BR/><BR/>Seriously though, I'm sorry to hear that. SB is an idiot. Or maybe he's gay. Whichever way you look at it, always look on the brighter side. I'll toast my shots on Tequila to you tonight! <BR/><BR/>Muah!Suavéhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17968960967201565075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148036198131969342006-05-19T11:56:00.000+01:002006-05-19T11:56:00.000+01:00Take care of yourself and remember that you didn't...Take care of yourself and remember that you didn't do anything wrong by loving him. He was lucky to have you and has lost someone really special.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17329124814064172699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148034611960592222006-05-19T11:30:00.000+01:002006-05-19T11:30:00.000+01:00zuzula - thanks sweetheart. I'm sure whether poiso...zuzula - thanks sweetheart. I'm sure whether poisoning myself is pampering, but in my world it just might be! x<BR/><BR/>Pity I can't smoke. Bummer.Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148034496776818062006-05-19T11:28:00.000+01:002006-05-19T11:28:00.000+01:00you make sure you thoroughly pamper yourself this ...you make sure you thoroughly pamper yourself this weekend hon. i'll be thinking of you xzuzulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11529129650106496253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148032706401544792006-05-19T10:58:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:58:00.000+01:00Simone - not the Colony. At Giles. It's not dodgy,...Simone - not the Colony. At Giles. It's not dodgy, but I was surrounded by dodgy company. ;)Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148032176546846302006-05-19T10:49:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:49:00.000+01:00Which dodgy pub in Craighall Park were you drinkii...Which dodgy pub in Craighall Park were you drinkiing at?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148031565989347452006-05-19T10:39:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:39:00.000+01:00Or a couple of good, healthy flings - no strings a...Or a couple of good, healthy flings - no strings attached. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148031121019765372006-05-19T10:32:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:32:00.000+01:00campagne heathen - cheers to that. see you at the ...campagne heathen - cheers to that. see you at the bar.<BR/><BR/>Jam - Ironically, when I said that, I went out and found myself Small Bum. Now I need a rebound for my rebound.Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148030935088068472006-05-19T10:28:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:28:00.000+01:00Peas - you once said something to the effect of : ...Peas - you once said something to the effect of : "The fastest way to get over someone is to get under someone new"...think about it....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148030855356027252006-05-19T10:27:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:27:00.000+01:00Guys always seem to take much longer to wake up in...Guys always seem to take much longer to wake up in these situations - they do the deed (i.e. breaking up with you) and then much later, the awful truth of what they have done to themselves and to you starts to sink in. And later, you'll have moved on to someone who is much more deserving.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148030524685900902006-05-19T10:22:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:22:00.000+01:00Peas, NEVER ask the "why" question that you mentio...Peas, NEVER ask the "why" question that you mention. Why if everything was going so well did he decide he'd rather not have it. <BR/>Just let that be & accept it is one of the greater universal questions. He won't even know the answer. Leave the question for Chicklit to try to answer. <BR/><BR/>That's the only piece of advice I can give you from my 1 experience in this field. Being the commitmentphobe I am, I am always the chick rebounding with tequila at the bar. <BR/><BR/>So I'll see you at the bar with a tequila.<BR/><BR/>And, don't think he is not hurting & missing you too right now.Champagne Heathenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540128789208726965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148029975674651032006-05-19T10:12:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:12:00.000+01:00Thanks Kel. I'm also starting to think that he lie...Thanks Kel. <BR/><BR/>I'm also starting to think that he lied about everything this whole time. The oke gave a royal fuck about me in fact. Because if he did he would've stayed!<BR/><BR/>I am starting to hate him.Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148029729348696722006-05-19T10:08:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:08:00.000+01:00Youre obviously giving him more credit then he was...Youre obviously giving him more credit then he was worth...if he said all ths stuff then he was talking kak at the time or he would be with you.Guys say anything to get into pants.<BR/>Cry,get pissed,think of him fondly ..and wait! when you see him in the not to distant future you'll be thanking your lucky stars you didnt end up with those frog hands.<BR/>& if you do end up getting back with him dont forget this ...he was mean and he hurt you and you are so much better than him,you may not know it now but you will.Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12724488292951670165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148029362975704362006-05-19T10:02:00.000+01:002006-05-19T10:02:00.000+01:00Does telling someone to F*** OFF qualify as oral s...Does telling someone to F*** OFF qualify as oral sex?<BR/>If so then when you move from the sad stage to the angry stage you'll be having lots of that :)Revolving Credithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15574797355925391736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148028966180095522006-05-19T09:56:00.000+01:002006-05-19T09:56:00.000+01:00revolving - one of my mates suggested that last ni...revolving - one of my mates suggested that last night. <BR/>Unfortunately, I'm just not that way inclined. And I fear I'll get more admin dating a girl. :)<BR/><BR/>("Where my flowers, bitch? It's been forever since you took me for dinner."<BR/>Me: It's been forever since you took ME for dinner, you lady bastard...you.)Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10009339.post-1148028837294188802006-05-19T09:53:00.000+01:002006-05-19T09:53:00.000+01:00I cannot imagine having sex anytime soon, I don't ...I cannot imagine having sex anytime soon, I don't even want to. I say this now. <BR/><BR/>But next month I may feel very differently, after a couple of shooters at a cattle barn somewhere in Rivonia, for instance.<BR/><BR/>Oh God. I'm dreading it.Peas on Toasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03349482085062035903noreply@blogger.com