I was, until a week ago, very good friends with my ex's friend. We used to do lots together. My ex said that the only reason that he was friends with me was because he wanted to "bone me." Charming. I always used to tell my ex to get stuffed, because that couldn't be the case.
I know that this guy liked me more than platonically, but he always knew where we stood. He met a girl, that I vaguelly know - she's a little wierd - and now he's got a girlfriend. I haven'y heard from him in weeks.
My ex was right. Now that he doesn't need to try and ..."bone me" he doesn't feel the need to be my friend. I am so hurt! I have e-mailed him a saying that we should ll go out sometime, etc. The usual stuff. He did go out this weekend with a whole lot of people, and I just didn't crack the nod.
Men. It's all or nothing, isn't it. We used to get on so well. But I', guessing I had it all wrong.