Thanks everyone for your encouragement and for sharing your stories with me. It has definitely made me feel stronger and less alone. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
On the other end of the scale, I have hit my first Possible Rebound Excuse. Saturday Night Conquest is trying hard to see me at the moment. Luckily, my social calendar is delaying this somewhat, but it looks as though I might have to meet him after drinks at Jolly Roger and explain that fun is what I want right now, not a relationship. He's not being especially pushy, but I need to lay my cards out on the table.
The way I see it, and because I'm so bad at this, I'm going to say this:
- I'm going to Mozambique for a month at the end of this year. So, impossible to keep in touch from a country with hardly any telephones.
- I don't want to hurt him, so let's just have fun.
- I'm so not ready for this.
That should work, I think, I hope?
After a couple of cheekies at the Jolly, the words should come out easier too. :)
8 comments:
ummm... why do you need to say anything? just have your fun and be done with it!
True. If it comes up, will place honest cards on tabel.
If it doesn't, won't say a thing.
Thanks guys. :)
Honesty is the best policy. Just do what feels right for you. :)
play it easy, if you see he's getting starey eyed lay your cards on the table so as not to create false expectations, those are the little buggers that end up hurting....
I agree with better
take as much time as ou need for yourself
Oh my, I've missed some happenings haven't I? Hope you're feeling better and as for SNQ, well, just lay cards and see what transpires.
Belated 'net hugs :)
Thanks guys! And welcome to my site Billy-o. :)
thanks for the welcome maam.
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