Monday, March 19, 2007

the end

We broke up.

It was mutual.

And amicable.

I feel like Captain Shiteski right now.

45 comments:

Anonymous said...

aaah, i'm sorry to hear that peas...

i'll be thinking of you babe!!

Kevin Cadman said...

My dear Peas... I don't know if I should apologise for the break-up (because it was mutual), but I'm sorry that you have to go through this crap again... It sucks big donkey balls :(

I wish I was in JHB now, I'd arrange an emergency smash-drinks-in-our-faces evening to temporarily curb the heart-ache!

Hope it doesn't last too long...

High in Dubai said...

Sorry to hear that sweet thing...

It definitely sucks but we are all here for you!

Betenoir said...

aw that really sucks. I'm sad for you sweetie.

I know it was amicable but if you change your mind ans need someone to take him down...I'm there for you.

keno said...

It really sounded like you two were good for each other peas, these things happen unfortunately..

I know you'll pull through however...your friends will make sure of that.

Nic said...

Ah Peas, that blows.

But at least there is an awesome 27 geek dinner coming up and you can throw geek-name around like no ones business!!

Anonymous said...

Peas,

We love you.

Chin up.

Doc

boldly benny said...

I'm so sorry Peas, regardless of whether it was mutual it's still tough. I'm nursing a broken heart at present so feel free to send an offload my way - I can relate! xxB

Peas on Toast said...

Thanks guys. xxx

fida said...

somehow

i could see it

coming . . .


fida
puresoul786@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

hey,

really sorry to hear about your break up. It seems to be in the air at the moment. sat with a second heart broken close mate in a week...
i'm single and don't know if i can take it anymore!
But wishing you the best and lots of wine and chocolate!

joe said...

Peas, shame...

It's time for you to give me a call :-) Let's do dinner and movies

073 5.....

Un abrazo enorme para ti

Revolving Credit said...

Hey Peas

You know, shit happens, right.
You've been here before and know that it will pass.

Not sure, do you want to blog about it to get it out your systems or is this blog too exposed now for that to happen anymore?

Do you know who I'd like to hear from now, this person:

"I am unapologetically crass about my overly-dramatic, binge-drinking, socialite, shoe-loving and sex-adoring behaviour that should otherwise be clandestine. I cause my own chaos. Life is a soap opera."

Anybody seen her about, cause she takes these things in her stride!
Laughs in the face of adversity!

Gaby said...

Hey Peas, sorry about the break up, i really feel for you... Be strong and hold on. Hugs and kisses

ChewTheCud said...

At least it was amicable and mutual. Big hug from everyone here at chew enterprises ;)

*HUGS*

PS. You so need the Eye of the Tiger song playing right now ;P

GoDsGiMp said...

O my!

Umm my condolences, o wwait thats wrong..
Err our thought are with you..
Hang in there.

SwissTwist said...

*hugs*

Daedalus said...

Ertjie,
Pheck!... :(

kyknoord said...

I'm with Betenoir on this one, Zuckerpflaume.

Daytripper said...

Peas, sorry to hear about his, but even I saw it coming and I haven't seen you in ages! Anyhoo, now maybe we can get back to salacious singles Peas posting unprintable stuff here hmmm?

Anonymous said...

Miss Peas,

The mutual breakups are the worst.

Hate is such a lovely emotion to channel the pain thru.

Chin up and remember, We live, we love, we learn...

Insano said...

For some reason, I can only find two words to describe your relationship (from a bloggers POV) -

Short & Stormy.

Ag shame.

Jam said...

Hello honey.
Ouch! You have my number - best you use it. Consider yourself well hugged.
Lots and lots of love.
xxx

Peas on Toast said...

Hi guys

THanks for your comments! I'm flu riddled at the moment, and of course I had to drive to Nigel to do a story.
The open road was fun. Sure.

I feel somewhat crappola.

Free holiday going anyone?? ;)

Billy said...

So sorry to hear that. Take it easy.

JamesW said...

quote joe: "Un abrazo enorme para ti"

Translates to An enormous hug for you.

Go babelfish

Louisa said...

Sorry to hear that Peas...and on a Monday as well! Sheesh! While you have flu?! That's just mean...

Hope you feel better soon.

phillygirl said...

Yup, me too. The very same weekend. Equally mutual. Equally amicable. Bring on the break-up sex ;)

Peas on Toast said...

Billy - thanks sweetie. xx

James W - Hugs are good right now. Very good. :(

LOuisa - yip, it's been one helluva weekend ... :(

Phillygirl - oh no! Not you too! Between me, you and Boldly Benny we've really got the shite side of the stick eh? Best of luck through it: break-ups are the worst. Am getting quite good at dealing with them these days...

acidicice said...

*BIG HUGS*

johnnyquarterback said...

Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all...

Sorry to hear it Peas. Hope you feel better.

Peas on Toast said...

acidice - thanks babe. x

Johnny - I've been told this probably a thousand times, and twice today. But you know what? It's severly overrated. Nothing can hurt me when I don't love. Because love is pretty much the only thing that has hurt me in my life. So not loving means I would've lead a rather beautifully painless life thus far. :(

zuzula said...

Hope you're okay darling. The highs in life are always worth the lows tenfold - here's to the next high xx

Anonymous said...

I haven't been reading you blog all that long but I do check in on you once a month, twice if I have time and then I read all the days I've missed....
You haven't been writting about him so sure you'll be able to move on quickly this time..
Best of luck. We're all searching for that one special person and I'm sure when you least expect it, you'll find him.
PS: don't think you'll find him in a club or bar, but good luck.

Peas on Toast said...

Zu - ..and today I'm not so sure those highs were worth this. :(

Anon - thank you. Yip, I don't think I'll meet that one special person in a bar. I'm not sure if I'm willing to open myself up to anything I meet in a bar here on out. ;)

Anonymous said...

Dear Peas

Sorry to hear your sad news!

I only recently stumbled across your blog and so have only 'known' you as 'hooked up peas'.... For sheer entertainment value (cos I think you have a wicked sense of humour) Im looking forward to the Peas take on single life!

From another single heart broken girl in London.

johnnyquarterback said...

whether you're single, in a relationship, or recently coming out of one, it can be very essential, very amazing or very sad. it's what you think about it that makes it so.

Things will sort themselves out....you'll see.

Inyoka said...

Ouch!

Hang in there my love (as they say in England.

SK said...

manhattan watch out...

kabintsimbi said...

Bugger...sorry to hear that!

Have yourself a case of wine or something similar in quantity & you'll wash away blah feeling...at least for a few hours!

Sorry again...

jmb said...

i r, big fan of pease, been big fan for longtime. virgos unite. i r suggest, pease should go shop new jean pants + shoes have a night on town to celebrate new found freedom.
i r will think of pease. hold strong.

Kevin Cadman said...

Come to Durban for the weekend... you know it'll be awesome! And it's my birthday on Friday. Just do it! You can have my room for the weekend, I'll sleep in the lounge.

Sorry, I can't really offer a free holiday, but that's about the best I can do!

Hope you're feeling better :)

ThomG said...

If it is any consolation, I filed for divorce on Thursday. Sorry to hear, Peas. We can share the pain.

Peas on Toast said...

Anon (single in London) - I'm sorry to hear about your heartbreak dollface. As I've said to people before - it sucks soooo bad, I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.

Johnny - I just hope by next week I'm back on track..I have to be!

Inyoka - thanks m'dear. x

SK - I shalt stay away from the vomit pit...until, like, next week. :)

Kab - yeah it's a bitch eh? I drank quite a bit last nght....:(

jmb - I r will buy r some jean pant when I get paid. :(

Kev - I like the sond of this! EXcept...how close to the beach is your house? Durbs is being washed away at the moment...:(

ThomG - Oh no my dear! That is horrible news, and best of luck to you. xx

The Granny Wrangler said...

oi bartender! can we get a bottle of scotch and a straw over here? peas, what'll you have doll?