Friday, January 06, 2006

chewing the fat with my girls

I met up with my girls after work yesterday for a post-holiday catch up. I love my girls.
Besides the fact that they were teasing me with "(Peas) has a boyfriend, Peas has a boyfriend!" and getting me completely hot and flustered, because I do not have a boyfriend.

What defines having a boyfriend? According to my serial-dater guy friend Doc, it's official after the third date. Weezy reckons it's only official after the third nap-over, all wining and dining at restaurants aside.
I believe its only official when both parties decide that it is. This can only be decided after "the talk." I haven't had this "talk" with Small Bum. We haven't even had the chance, for God's sake, we both just had a three week away holiday. So in conclusion, I am only "seeing" him at the moment.

And that's that.

I'm smiling alot at the moment though. When my boss asked me to redo our whole website yesterday (which is a full-time job in itself) I grinned and yes, "Of course I'll do it!" When usually I'd roll my eyes and go, "I have a lot of work to do, but I'll try to squeeze it in...somehow."

Our book club is back on track. Thursday next week. Gotta love it.

7 comments:

zuzula said...

hello hon welcome back! sounds like you had a fab hol and needed the break.

I agree with the three date rule I'm afraid... i think you may be in boyfriend territory here!

Nettie said...

Maybe they meant, "Please have a boyfriend, please have a boyfriend!"

Paperslut said...

Aloha!

Happy new year and all that rubbish.

Looks like things are back to normal.

"Seeing".. heh. Euphimisms!

Peas on Toast said...

hi guys

Ok..ok so I have an unofficial boyfriend. Eeek panic! :)

Billy said...

Hey Peas,
Good to see you in such chippa spirits!Long may it last!
Happy New year and all the best for the next 355 days.

P.s: I read Spud over the holiday and it was brilliant. Absolutely loved it.

She de la Handbag said...

Happy New Year and Happy New Boyfriend:)

Peas on Toast said...

Billy - Isn't Spud the best? Taking it to book club on Thursday!

Handbag - And to you too dearie! EXCEPT, I don't have a boyfriend see. :)